Mark Twain reportedly said, “‘Be yourself’ is the worst advice you can give some people.” The problem with Twain’s assertion is that, if you don’t tell people to “be themselves,” who else can they be? You don’t really have a choice. You can’t be somebody else. So, like it or not, we are doomed to be ourselves.
In ethics and psychology, another term for “being yourself” or “becoming yourself” is self-actualization, also called self-realization. For many, self-actualization is the definition of happiness. Thus they define the pursuit of happiness as self-actualization, becoming who you are. (more…)











